
You may not succeed in marriage, but you can succeed in divorce.
"From uncertainty to empowerment—you're not alone!”
Kimberlee Sweeney,
CEO Degrees of Separation Ltd
- CDC© & DCA® ADR® Certified Divorce Coach
- Member of Collaborative Resolution NZ
-Gottman trained Level 1 & 2
The Goal
As your coach, my intention is to guide you in exploring all your options - before making life-changing decisions. Whether you are questioning whether to stay in a relationship or are preparing for separation, I am here to help you plan your next steps with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
From working to repair a partnership to separating with dignity, I support you in:
Communicating calmly and effectively
Managing conflict with emotional regulation
Rewiring unwanted thought patterns and reactions
Building new, healthier ways of thinking and relating
Gaining peace of mind in doing what is best for yourself, your children, and your wider community
This journey is not one you take alone - I will walk alongside you, holding you accountable and helping you move forward with purpose.
Decision making
Learn to trust yourself again.
My coaching helps you build the resilience and confidence needed to make empowered decisions for your future - whether that means staying and working on your relationship or separating respectfully and amicably.
We will explore every option available to your unique circumstances, with a focus on rebuilding yourself, your life, and your family—together or apart..
Co-parenting Support
Strong co-parenting begins with strong communication.
Develop better communication skills and stronger partnerships as co-parents, supported by tools such as:
Custom parenting plans – work on your draft plan with your coach for a facilitated meeting with all parties or as preparation for FDR mediation.
Shared expenses planning for care of children
Emotional guidance from someone who has walked this path before
Learn how to reformulate your relationship to a healthy co-parenting relationship.
With co-parenting coaching, you will be better prepared to support your children in a stable, well-structured environment in two homes.
Future Planning
Hope begins with a plan.
Together, we will:
Brainstorm options for your future
Create achievable steps at your pace
Gather the right info to prepare you for mediation, legal meetings, and new relationships
Avoid common pitfalls and preserve your dignity through the process
You don’t know what you don’t know - I'll help you prepare, plan, and protect your peace of mind.
Practical Systems
Make your next chapter less stressful with smart systems:
Budget planning and financial goal setting
Parenting plan frameworks
Separation goal-setting
Prepare you for meetings with expert referrals such as, legal, financial, and wellbeing professionals, so you maximise your time and money in such meetings
We'll bring in the right experts when needed and build a framework that supports you and your family long-term.
Mindset & Wellbeing
Separation and relationship challenges are emotionally exhausting. Together, we will:
Reduce stress and emotional overwhelm
Reality check your decision making with you
Use practical mindset tools to stay grounded
Improve emotional regulation for yourself and your family
Build healthier thought patterns for future relationships and life changes
Whether you are moving on as a single parent, entering a new relationship, or co-parenting in a blended family, I will support your mindset and wellbeing every step of the way.
Referral network
You are not in this alone.
As your coach, I serve as your divorce architect - helping you rebuild from the ground up. I work with a trusted network of professionals:
Family lawyers
Mediators
Counsellors
Financial planners
Before you meet with any external experts, I help you prepare - gathering questions, paperwork, and emotional clarity to make your time with them more productive, less expensive, and far less stressful. Let me help reduce your concerns and stress. Reach out for a complimentary discovery call to learn more!
Kimberlee Sweeney
Having gone through her own divorce and now successfully co-parenting with her former partner, Kimberlee not only has the professional education and qualifications as a certified Divorce Coach, but also personal empathy and understanding for her clients and their journey.
Coaching Packages
Whether you are still in a relationship and wanting to make it work, or are thinking about exiting a relationship or in the midst of separating. Not sure whether to stay or leave? My packages are tailor made to cater for your personal situation.
Feeling lost in your separation or decision making? Are we a good fit? What package is best for you? Let’s talk.
Are we a good fit?
Free of charge, 15mins
Join me for a complimentary quick chat via phone to see if Divorce Coaching is for you. We’ll discover if we are we a good fit and how coaching will be of benefit for your situation.
One off coaching $255
75-90mins
One off coaching sessions are perfect for clients looking for on demand support when and as they need it. This option is often used when you are in the ‘should I stay or should I go phase’ or for ongoing co-parenting support.
Packages from $510
3, 5 or 10 sessions
Designed to support you through the whole process from the initial decision to separate, through the legal process with your lawyer and beyond into the next phase of your life. Divorce without drama, practical guidelines and workbooks to help you move forward in your journey in a more positive way.
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Our digital downloads have been developed to remove some of the financial stress from the process of divorce.
“Having clients work with Kimberlee makes my life as a family lawyer easier as my clients are coming to me less stressed and in the right headspace to tackle their legal matters and most importantly, it makes the separation pathway easier for my clients to traverse”
Selina J Trigg
Director, Family Law Results
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Are we a good fit?
Join me for a complimentary quick chat via phone/zoom to see if Divorce Coaching is for you. Are we a good fit? Will coaching be of benefit for your situation.
15 mins / free of charge